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How to Send Messages
Published 5 March 2026
Updated 6 April 2026
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Byt og Flyt
Communication on Byt og Flyt
Once you have found a potential match, it is time to get in touch.
When can you send messages?
You can write to other users when:
- You have a mutual match
- You have a Premium subscription
Your first message
A good first message includes:
- A friendly greeting
- Why you are interested in their home
- A bit about your own home
- A suggestion for the next step
Tips for good communication
- Reply quickly: Active users get more matches
- Be polite: Remember there is a person on the other end
- Be specific: Suggest specific times
- Share photos: Send extra photos if they ask
Safety
- Never share personal information before you have met in person
- Use the messaging system on Byt og Flyt
- Report suspicious behaviour
